Post by pendleton on Nov 26, 2014 10:35:25 GMT
Nov 26, 2014 3:53:09 GMT @sacfisherking said:
I can only imagine after LE reported his small penis the tips that flowed in from women reporting under endowed ex lovers as potential suspects. I also think that this aided him avoiding eventual identification and was one of LE blunders
I think you're very right here. I don't know for certain but I can imagine that LE was flooded with tips from women who wanted to hurt a man in their life. Imagine the humiliation an ex-lover/bf/husband would feel having the police knock on their door and tell them you've been named as an EAR suspect do to your small penis (I'm smiling at the brilliance of this on the woman's part but also shaking my head when I think of the level of frustration this could have caused LE in following up with all this).
If this guy utilized the service of prostitutes then they were the type that kept their mouth shut (LE at the time asked working girls if there were any clients that were odd or small) because no prostitute or ex lover has ever come forward with the info that has brought this guy to light. I also think that due to the severe personality disorder present with EAR that he is going to stick out like a sore thumb (no pun) to any normal lover or ex lover and get reported to LE. This has not happened to date. I kind of think this guy stayed in the fantasy for extremely long periods. Rape and bondage porn/regular porn helped keep him in the fantasy and also further solidified his isolation from normal society as the more one participates in this behavior the less capable they are of real life relations reinforcing the need to indulge in the fantasy type behavior. I think this guy is a very big bondage/regular porn consumer. Between porn and the raping he was satisfied enough to keep off the radar with normal sexual relationships. That and his fear/perception of himself would severely limit his normal sexual relationships. If true this could be a reason we don't know who he is yet.
Most prostitutes seem to keep their mouth shut. I don't think they need be high end. I think its a combination of type of client that visits prostitutes and the prostitutes' perception of the world, men and police that leads to the fact that prostitutes are rarely helpful in these types of investigations. Even when they are the perceived target, it takes them almost losing their life to a client before their statements are taken seriously/recognized by police. That being said, I think if EAR visited prostitutes, his inability to voice his desire to them would have lead to that 'extreme' type of situation and there would have been some sort of statement/evidence. I agree that he was a heavy porn/bondage addict. It makes me think of David Parker Ray again and his own claims of being a heavy porn/bondage addict. DPR said he funded his "toy box" by selling custom bondage equipment in the back of Screw magazine. If that's true, you have to wonder who he met and what kind of correspondence he had with them?
P.S. The first part of this reply got cut off. Ironically it started with me saying I'm having trouble replying. Probably do to my lack of computer skills/lack of a computer from this decade but I wanted to mention something else you said:
Perception is reality for most people especially their own perception of themselves.
This phrase is another very common theme in psychology, akin to one I mentioned earlier: 'Can you love anyone if you truly hate yourself?'
Now I'm rambling...