What Kind Of Father Do You Think He Was To His Girls?
May 2, 2018 0:22:28 GMT
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Post by benegesserit on May 2, 2018 0:22:28 GMT
I think the thing with the wife being "unfriendly" towards neighbors probably had nothing to do with her marriage, it was probably her own personality. Perhaps even that personality is what drew her to JJD and him to her...who knows what kind of "meet cute" story they may have. It seems from the Yelp comments that she had difficulty keeping employees (if that is to be believed). I have some years of familiarity with family law attorneys and not all, but a lot, of female family law attorneys are very, um, how shall I say this, *y and difficult to work for. I know of several who have revolving doors for employees. So, I can totally see SH not being friendly.
While I think all of us want to somehow find out this guy was a horrific father and evil husband because it is easier to cope with not all psychos look like that crazed photo of Charles Manson (unfortunately). This guy was seemingly just like one of us, our neighbor, our community. It makes me feel uneasy because you never know.
Has anyone clarified if he and his wife were actually divorced or not? If not, there are a lot of reasons for people to stay legally married. One big one is health insurance. If SH is self employed and had a pre-existing condition, it would have been nearly impossible for her to obtain health insurance on her own. If she divorced JJD he would not be able to keep her on his group/employer plan as a dependent. Another has to do to with some pensions and also taxes. Not that I know if any of these are a reason, but if they are, it seems that JJD and his wife somehow managed to agree to stay legally married for someone's benefit. If it was JJD that again makes him seem almost compassionate and normal. So who knows, he may be have been dad of the year to his kids.
So scary, I look at all of my neighbors with a jaundiced eye now.