Post by oldguy on May 13, 2018 13:12:47 GMT
Spot on. To some personalities, the individuals in their lives are tools to fulfill their needs or to support their grandiose vision of themselves. People do start new families after a bad marriage. Nothing unusual and possibly very healthy-especially if done without emotional and financial abandonment of the original family unit.
But look at what happened here-he moves to an Asian culture (lots of submissive women) and recreates the original family unit. Literally. This is spitting in the face of the older children.."you failed me...I'am going to recreate you right. You are nothing."
As far as who was abusing, my guess is mom was the bigger abuser. And she sexually abused JJD.
This very unusual and very unhealthy family unit was recreated by JJD and Sharon Huddle.
I dont understand your last line, about his family with Huddle?
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His father recreated that family of origin also-but in Korea, probably with a submissive human punching bag. And in a spectacularly arrogant and dismissive fashion-appropriating the identities of the children of the first family.
These family systems are constellations of disorder. But again that can only explain, it does not excuse a single thing JJD did.
Some here want JJD dead. I'd rather he live out his remaining life with no control over anything. That would be positively excruciating for him. And we may learn a great deal about the formation of sexual predators.