Possible motivation- sister raped
May 13, 2018 13:55:21 GMT
sammyt, riverstorum, and 17 more like this
Post by oldguy on May 13, 2018 13:55:21 GMT
May 12, 2018 0:03:05 GMT mia said:
I just read this online and it's downright horrifying. It reminds me of Richard Ramirez witnessing his cousin shooting and killing his wife as a young Ramirez looked on.
I just finished reading the entire article and it sheds light on the DeAngelo children's childhood. Their father beat their mother and the mother beat the children.
It's sickening and saddening to read about the way the parents reacted to their 7-year-old daughter's rape. That poor little girl.
As for the parents' reaction...not surprising. They clearly were disordered and through these disorders saw their children as instruments of support for their needs. So..dad's likely calculation was...better for his career to say nothing to the chain of command. And of course that only works if the children remain silent.
Last fall after my mother's and step father's deaths I found out my biological father sexually abused my sister for years..and when she finally told our mom her reaction was to beat her badly. Why would she do that? Well, he was her (mom's) meal ticket can't threaten that! She could hit..one time she punched me so hard my little body flew from the kitchen into the dining room where I lay on the floor unconscious. Why did she do that? Because I accidentally dropped a piece of blueberry pie on her newly cleaned kitchen floor. Why did I drop it? Because she feared her clean floor might get dirty so she pushed me to leave the room, causing the pie to fall. Of course when it fell and soiled the floor that offended her sense of perfection and was a violation of my role which was to enhance her self-esteem. So she exploded.
At 18 when my father discovered her affair with the guy across the street my father killed himself-and concurrently rendered our house uninhabitable. . Mom's boyfriend moved 300 miles away and 10 days after the suicide, mom followed leaving me alone and basically homeless. Her explanation? Her boy friend needed sex!
Birds of a feather flock together, her boyfriend had, 2 years before the suicide, abandoned his family-he was in Saudi Arabia working with an oil company when a fire burned his wife, son and daughter out of their home. Of course she asked him to come home and help now homeless family. He refused. Flying home would have disrupted a big project. So it goes.....
I share these things to illustrate the extreme lengths disordered parents will go to protect their needs and enhance their self esteem.
The cycle can be broken. I never abused my daughter in any way. She is a strong and healthy woman today with a growing family. And my good wife of 39 years is downstairs.
There is no excuse for violence against women or children....